Building Confidence

Have you ever noticed that just when you're considering stepping out of your safe zone to reach for that goal you've wanted so badly, you're filled with fear and resistance? What you really want is to be filled with Confidence.

Well, here's something you need to know about confidence.....

Confidence is developed as a RESULT of a process. The process begins with thinking things through clearly, doing all the necessary preparation, developing a strong support system, taking THE step, remaining focused on your goal, dealing with all the challenges that come up (some of which may be those you feared) and drawing on internal resources of strength and character you didn't know you possessed. Sometime later, you'll look back to the point where you originally began, probably be amazed at the steps you've taken and notice that you have gained Confidence in your ability.

Quite honestly, I think it's very beneficial to be filled with a certain amount of nervous excitement at the beginning (as opposed to being over-confident of lackadaisical) because it keeps you alert and aware of what's taking place which is the best place from which to make decisions. www.kristinajansz.com